Stepping UP

So.... In the spirit of being a better blogger, I will make sure I share a post with you guys at least twice a month. I need to start finding a way to be as consistent with my posts as can possibly be. Now that I've managed to get myself a new phone (before the one I lost inside a taxi) best believe I will stay true to my word. I honestly pray I get to a point where I'm digging deep into recognizing trends, fashion and style, and attending events that interest me the most in King. My dailly struggle about being in King though is having to live amongst a culture that does not completely represent me. But I will never complian because I know God put me and my family here for a reason. I try to find a balance and to find ways to strongly stay true to my God giving design regardless of my environment. Life down here is a complete opposite to my natural disposition. But you know what? I'd like to think there are alot like me with socially unpopular identitys but there are many shades of black and its time we embrace them all. I am Ndebele!! And I want people to always know that about me. Its who I am aswell as who I identify with as a human being. Do I look as hammered as I really was? All dressed up though!!

Flooding internally with tears of fear

I'll be quite honest. I am one of those people who literally experience nerves when placed in a situation where I could be rejected. I don't know why I feel this way but all I know is that I certainly wasn't raised to feel this way about myself. Struggling with this fear of rejection has had a far reaching impact in the way I lived my life. I now believe each of us are born into genuis. Sadly, most of us die amid mediocrity. I am now grown to fear NOTHING but the Almighty God. I needed a bit of cheering up today, so I opted for Kidd's Beach with Gin and Lemonade of cause :-)

East London Fashion Night!

East London Fashion Night has got to be one of the most exciting events I've ever attended in the Eastern Cape. A lot happens at the event but its mostly a platform for young creatives to mingle over wine and champagne while exchanging business ideas on how to grow. I feel like most of the young women who attended the event were wearing too much make up - for such a cool event. Anyway, I took a selfie with a future business partner and here it is. More pictures on my Instagram. Handle is @Thaa_baby

#KeepItSocialWithBiso

So excited about my first ever event. I have created a platform for young creatives and small business owners to mingle over soul music, good food and wine. I'm so excited about the planning, my guests and setting up the decor for this dinner party. I am hosting this dinner party for a maximum of twenty people. There will be music, wine as well as various sorts of entertainment lined up. I want people who will mingle in conversation with other creatives and business partners about how we can all work together - when in need to outsource each others talents or services. More than anything this will be classy, so I expect people attending to step out of their closets on this day. I will keep you all posted on how the event goes. I need to start working. This is event is by my personal invite only. #KeepItSocialWithBiso

Building my faith

I am officially a member of the Ginsberg SDA church. Lets just say, having faith in the Lord has become my only source of growth. I am a divine creation - one of God's masterpieces. Giving myself time for church every saturday has never felt so great! But I guess its true when they say life is so beautiful when you prioritize your life and thats exactly what I'm doing. God is love! 

A thug leader without ranks

I live a small portion of my life being a homo thug as well as a professional hustler in the street. In the years, I've stumbled upon niggas who tend to possess 'qwirhy' tendencies such as negative traits and habits which are supposed to cause harm not only to myself but my hustle too. They tend to always have pre concieved notions of who I am, yet they actually dont know jack shit about who I really am. Dont judge my appearance and the way I carry myself because thats not who I am. Really. These niggas see an opportunity to easily screw me over, I'm also seen as an easy target; especially them knowing I'm gay, it seems like I'm seen as less of a man. Being a homo thug, I dont tolerate facetious behaviors or any kind of shape, color or form. Infact, I dont take lightly of people who are out there to bring me down. The only way to deal with such a situation is to build a solid relationships out of these human beings by stabbing them. Fast!! Its a reminder - I might be impatha but I am nobody's bitch. Andisoze ndibelilo ne blom lase ndia, my persona and my sexual preference is actually 10% of who I really am. Little do they know. I'm in this for the money, nothing else.

New Hairstyle

I honestly try to be at home as much as I can these days because my dad has been feeling really ill - struggling with diabetes and following a strict diet also feeling a short of breathe and experiencing heart palpitations every now and then. Since I'm the 'beloved' son :-) I have been taking care of my dad during the day when I'm not at school, which has been such a strain towards my emotions as I constantly found myself thinking about how my life would be without him. All in all. Lets just say, umoya wam kudala ephantsi and I needed to do something to get my spirit lifted. So I got myself a new haircut. What do you think? Big thanks to the girls from the East London Management Institute - In Vogue Hair School.